I'll tell you straight sd I won't lie to you Your fu..ed. You've been neutered by the Org. It doesn't matter what you do for her it won't be appreciated. Your at the bottom of the JW pecking order the lowest of the low. She can't have a good opinion of you that is at odds with that of her JW friends and what the Org says you must be for leaving them cognitive dissonance I've been there very stressfull near tore me apart
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sd-7's whining session 3-30-2010
by sd-7 inso...memorial tonight, eh?
yup.
sunday was a fun meeting.
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Memorial 2010 Your Experiences
by scotinsw injust got back from memorial.
only went so that i could say to my parents that i had gone and to remind myself why i left.. oh my word!!!
it was sooooo painful.. got there a bit late - it was a couple of minutes into the talk.
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Luo bou to
And I believe they don't count all the partakers if the Elders have doubts that they are genuine So the real number may be even higher
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Aposta-men, Do You Know How to Sew?
by White Dove inthe men in the coven i was in knew how to use a sewing machine quite well.
it was required for first degree work that everyone make a ritual garment.
some covens in the assembly had to make their own tabards, too.
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Luo bou to
I can knit. Does that count?
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so why dont they cut to the chase at the door???
by oompa inas in..."hi, my name is soa fraid and i hope you will accept my offer for a free home bible study.
the reason you should accept this free offer is that our leaders, the men who have compiled the material for this study receive direct communication from god, and he speaks to no other religion on earth.
they then write down what god has told them to, and publish it in a zillion languages so that we can teach people what god really meant in his new world translation of the holy scriptures...you may refer to it as the bible.
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Luo bou to
I always said Good Morning my name is Bob I am a Jehovah's Witness. They would say not interested or something like that and I would move on. The only problem I had was when the householder said OK so and did not give me short shift.... then I had to actually think of something to talk about.....bummer
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What is Truth?
by AK - Jeff inif one 'googles' the phrase, you get 167,000,000 hits!.
'bing' it, and you get 129,000,000 hits.. here is a sampling of opinion from just the first page of google hits.. 1] douglas groothuis, ph.d., teaches philosophy at denver seminary.
here is his 'take' on truth: http://www.leaderu.com/theology/groothuis-truth.html.
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Luo bou to
www.factnet.org/Stages_Of_Spiritual_Growth.html
Check it out AK
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Motorcycle riders: Who are you and what do you ride?
by UnConfused insuzuki boulevard c50 for me.. .
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Luo bou to
Triumph Bonneville America 'till I sold it. Needed the money to set up house with my lady..... 6months later no woman no bike.
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Waht do you think of Russian/overseas brides who go after western older men???
by Witness 007 inmy witness mate says he's going to go to the philippines to find himself a witness wife....i've seen a number of them here with much older men....sometimes they have kids and all........what you think?
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p.s don't ya hate that friggin add on here....make me look like a dirty perv at work!!!!!!
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Luo bou to
I think their lovely and know how to treat a man well unlike the ballbusters in the west
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how long in truth,,,what was the final "straw"
by peaches ini was in for 30 years.....my ex was an elder...."holy spirit appointed" he tortured me....i was married 33+ years....you know,,,marriage is sacred...you can leave,,,i know,,,,if abuse is intolerable....but that starts a series of events...etc etc etc....i finally left everything...and moved far away.....people actually believe "holy spirit" appoints people,,,my ex would not pray unless there was an audience...you know,,,,people invited over for supper kind of thing,,,you get the point..... my best friend had a mental breakdown,,,,she basically became psychotic.....had to be hospitalized....she took up smoking,,,got disfellowshipped...and lost all emotional support....to this day,,,,as far as i know,,,she is still disfellowshipped...needs to be hospitialized every so often....she is on complete disability.....and still trying to get back into the org....her mother does support some what,,,,even though she is a witness herself,,,,,takes her to assemblies,,,,memorial,,,etc,,,,this has gone on for years.....she cannot mentally handle the organization,,,nor can she mentally handle not being a witness...lost everything....guilt....etc..... did not mean to ramble on so much......i have mental scars that will not go away....because i stayed in a "mess" for god,,,,i could write page after page of things like the above....as being my "last straw".......curious about you here on the board....any specific "breaking point" or a collection of many things..... thanks for your in put...peaches.
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Luo bou to
I was a true believer since childhood then I got the boot for supporting my unbaptized 14 year old daughter in a decision she made that the Elders did not agree with. I continued to attend meetings for 8 months "feeling the love" ( no-one talks to you; they treat you like dirt)all the while this scripture was going round and round in my head. Where Jesus said "Love your enemies pray for them" and I kept thinking "Am I now the enemy" if so, then I should be treated better than this. So I started doing some research on the net. I did not like what I was learning about the WT and the apostate sources I accessed: They were not at all like the WT said they would be ( bitter angry liars with an Axe to grind ) They were giving me facts, facts I could not deny. Like I said I did not like it It meant My whole life everything that I had based my life on was now being swept away. Every witness should experience being dis fellowshipped then they might think twice about imposing this disgusting policy on others.
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Does anyone remember when the Watchtower website first opened, it wasn't mentioned in the magazines or at the meetings for a while?
by slimboyfat ini seem to remember that from the mid-ninties onwards there were articles in the km and watchtower warning about the dangers of the internet.
as a result it seemed to come as a bit of a surprise to some witnesses i knew when the society opened up their own website.
but as i recall, when the society first opened the website, they never mentioned it in the literature or at the meetings.
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Luo bou to
I remember a cheeky ex in Sweden I think that was giving the WT a few headaches at the time He started a sight that was a mirror of the WT one
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Would you NOT hire a JW because they're a JW?
by Open mind inwould you let a jw's religion affect your decision to use their services?.
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Luo bou to
One Jw employer I know new the score He had JW employees under a worldly foreman who would not tolerate any crap from them